Nabeel Speaks

The most romantic day of the year, Valentine’s Day, is not too far. So, if you are planning to propose your beloved then don’t miss the opportunity. Well, whether you are girl or a boy, doesn’t matter, you both can propose your love. But boys its better you go first as this is sure-shot time to get positive response. We provide you top 5 ways to propose on this Valentine’s Day:

1. Propose with the Ring: This is the best and perfect way to propose your girl. The impact of this trick is just magical. The success rate of this way of proposal is 200%. You know rings or jewelry are the weakness of girls so there are very little chances that she’ll say no.

2. Plan a romantic Date: Another secure way to propose is plan a romantic date just for you two only. The exclusive date must cover a gift, nice exotic food, romantic music and dance. The combined effect of these things will mesmerize her, so no chance of negativity.

3. Propose with Red Roses: If you are a student or a young boy, you can propose your girlfriend with fresh red roses and tempting chocolates. This will not put burden on your pocket and you’ll get best result.

4. Go for Tattoo: The powerful and intense way to propose is Tattoo her name on your body. As girls are emotional so, this will definitely work. But be careful, even if she gets angry don’t lose hope this means that she loves you and cares for you.

5. Propose in Front of Your Group: Surprise her/him by proposing in front of your group this will certainly work. Girls especially love surprises so use this way to propose the love of your life with a beautiful bouquet or teddy.

Everybody loves your total attention so be with him/her all day and make it an unforgettable moment for him/her.

Use any of the above ways and create the magic of love in your life. This Valentine Day express love, give love and get love because love can conquer anything.

1. Have a Picnic:

Weather permitting, picnics are a great idea for a first date. There’s food, you’re outdoors, and best of all you can speak to each other without worrying if other people in the area can hear you. Just pack up a basket full of food, a blanket, and head off to your favorite little stream or park and the date is made for you.

2. Go Skating:

Skating can be done anywhere, outdoors, at a skating rink, around an empty basement (on second thought an empty basement might NOT be the BEST place for a first date). It’s great if you stink because then you have to hold on really tightly to your date (swoon). And if you fall, handle it with grace and laugh at yourself. Your date will definitely like that!

3. Go Bowling:

Bowling is another first date idea that’s good even if you stink. If you’re good you’ll impress your date with your cannon of an arm, if you stink then do a victory dance (even if you only knock down one pin). Either way, even in the loud atmosphere of the alley, you’ll have a good time. Just don’t walk off with the bowling shoes.

4. Have a Ping Pong Tournament:

What’s better than a game of ping pong? A ping pong tournament! Challenge your date to a game or ten and go crazy with the paddles. It’ll be the perfect chance to show off your mad skills, or lack thereof. Either way, there will be laughs and good times.

5. Play Mini Golf:

Mini Golf is the most played first date game in the history of first dates. There’s a reason for that — mini golf is a little bit or exercise paired with a little bit of conversation paired with a lot of frustrated cursing. But none of that matters because it’s good clean fun (mostly, if you don’t swear because you miss your shot) and you and your date have to stick close to each other.

6. Go Dancing:

I know the cool thing to do lately when you go dancing is to rub your booty all up against people but I’m not talking about that kind of dancing. We’re women okay? On a first date dance like a lady. Your date will be holding you close or just close to you and it’ll be romantic. And that ladies is what we want on a first date. Fun and Romance!

7. Play Pool:

Pool! It’s a fun game. And this is another date idea where it doesn’t matter how good or bad you are at the game. If you’re good, impress your date with crazy jump tricks and bank shots. If you’re bad, your date will have to teach how to aim and shoot. Either way, it’ll be a good time.

8. Paint Pottery:

Let out that creative being and paint some pottery! It’s inexpensive and a great way to spend a night with your date. It gets the creative juices flowing and conversation is pretty easy. Talk about anything from color choices for your pieces to how scary some of the pre-sculpted pieces are!

9. Go for Coffee:

Having coffee has always been and will always be a great first date. You have something to sip when you need a minute to think of a witty response to what your date is saying. You’ll also get a nice quiet place to talk.

Dear Friends,

May this day brings good luck and happiness in ur life…….


They love you,

but they are not your lover……


They care for you,

but they are not from your family…….


They are ready to share your pain,

but they are not in your blood relation……


They are........FRIENDS! !!!!



True friend...... ..


Scolds like a DAD…. …

Cares like a MOM………


Teases like a SISTER........

Irritates like a BROTHER………


And finally loves U more than a LOVER………

10

Things You Can Do For Your Mom

Often, moms do virtually all of the giving

and very little, if any, of the taking from their families. They may not say it,

but most of them want to be appreciated in small ways. You don't have to buy

them a car or a house (you could do that too), but it's the small things that

count with mom.

Here are some ideas of how you can let mom know that all

of her giving has and continues to be appreciated.

1. Give mom a

vacation

Don't think Hawaii . Think of a day away from the kitchen. Or

the home. Give her a vacation from the home where for her, most of the seemingly

endless housework is done daily. Or, if she doesn't want that, start doing your

share around the house. Maybe you could start giving her one day of the week

off, when she does no cooking or household chores. Remember, fathers and

husbands work hard at the office, but they get a two-day weekend in most cases.

Moms usually don't even get a full day off. And if they are also working

outside, it's like two full time jobs.

2. Let's hear her life story: a

mom's circle

She may have read you bedtime stories when you were small,

but now it's time for her to tell you a different story-about herself. Make a

mom's circle at home in which you ask her to tell her life story. Mom's circle

may actually turn into a project: one family member could write this up into a

report, another could make a story book out of it and a third could video/audio

record it. A mom's circle may become an ongoing family tradition.

3. Try

beating mom's cooking

While most moms ask their kids what they want to

eat, turn the tables around and do the same for her. Is there special food your

mom likes? Buy or prepare that food for her (if you are not the best of cooks,

maybe it's safer to just buy it).

4. Is your mom in a nursing

home

If your mom is in a nursing home, why not plan to bring her home for

a weekend visit to stay with you. Even better, why not make this a weekly, or

twice a month set up, so you can spend more time with her and she can be around

those who really love her more often? Of course the ultimate gift will be if you

can liberate her from that nursing home so she can stay in her room in your own

home.

5. Arrange a mammogram for her

Every three minutes, a woman

in America is diagnosed with breast cancer. That woman could be your

mom.

A woman's chances of developing breast cancer increases with age.

The National Cancer Institute recommends women age 40 and over be screened with

mammography every one to two years. It also advises that women at higher risk of

breast cancer get medical advice before they are 40 about when to begin

screening and about the frequency of their screening. Do this for your mom, so

you can see her spend the rest of her life in good health, Insha Allah (if God

wills).

6. Is your mom a bookworm?

If so, buy a small cabinet and

buy all of the books you can afford. Then take it to her home and set it up for

her.

7. If your mom is a non-Muslim

If your mom is a non-Muslim,

try fasting for a day (Nafil or extra fasting), and keep thinking and praying

for her. Ask Allah that He guides her and ask Him what you can do to help her

understand her own Creator.

8. If your relationship has not been the best

with your Mom

If your relationship with your mom has not been the best,

sit down in front of a year-long calendar or planner and mark down dates and

things which you can plan to improve this relationship. Start off by making a

formal first appointment. Then pick dates on which you can keep contact with her

and build your relationship on a regular basis.

9. If mom is not

alive

If your mom is not alive, visit her relatives and friends and ask

what you can do for them.. Consider these two Hadiths (sayings of the Prophet

Muhammad peace and blessings be upon him):

1. The Messenger of Allah

said: When a person dies, his actions come to an end, except for three things: a

continuing Sadaqa (charity), knowledge from which benefit is still being

derived, and a righteous child who prays for her or him (translated meaning from

Muslim).

2. Abu Usaid Saidi said: We were once sitting with Rasulullah

when a man from the tribe of Salmah came and said to him: O Messenger of Allah!

do my parents have rights over me even after they have died? And Rasulullah

said:

Yes. You must pray to Allah to bless them with His Forgiveness and

Mercy, fulfill the promises they made to anyone, and respect their relations and

their friends (Abu Dawud and Ibn Majah).

10. Pick up her feet and spread

the word

The Prophet Muhammad said: Your Heaven lies under the feet of

your mother (Ahmad, Nasai). Ask your mom to lift her feet, so you can locate

where Jannah is. Then tell others about your discovery by sharing what Islam has

to say about moms and their importance in our lives.